Sunday, May 09, 2010

不必畏惧单身,更不用刻意向往单身

读了张曼娟<单身女子的努力> ,发现无论是男女,都撇不开‘单身’这个话题。本身结束了整6年的爱情长跑,开始时有冲动想要让自己尽快地在下一站搭上幸福列车,可能是浸在爱河太久的缘故吧,导致一下子对孤独产生恐惧,失去了自我..也做了很多傻事!

什么傻事?

自分手后,很多‘机缘巧合’让我和酒精扯上关系。不到半年时间,喝酒等级已经可以和一班酒鬼喝上三、四瓶色酒也没问题。那时候,时时提醒自己只要不沉迷,当着应酬就好。

另一个爱上喝酒的原因是我找到一个可以和我把酒当歌的伙伴,她可以带我暂时远离那一些缠绕我脑袋已久的压力、问题。这都是酒鬼都会给的借口,但和她喝酒的感觉确实真的很不一样,至少,我们只是小喝几杯,而且也是在人潮稀少的酒吧慢慢地品尝啤酒里边微苦的味道,然后再以一些话题将烦恼驱逐....

这样的生活,整一年了,表里表外,我还是单身,早已和[寂寞]、[孤独]结交成为好朋友,不时也会欢迎它们的来探望,提醒自己:
“不用怕它们了,它们也不是很恐怖而已..”

听起来,确实很自欺欺人的感觉;我必须赞同这是我唯一面对它们的王牌,如果把自己的王牌隐藏,就等于将自己藏到深渊去,永远就无法从黑暗走出来了....

走过这段路,才知道怎么真正面对、看待单身。我们不必畏惧单身,更不用刻意向往单身;只要以平常心对待,找出自我,单身或不单身,其差距只在一线间!

Saturday, May 08, 2010

摄影作品: 出淤泥而不然的白莲花

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之前在太平动物园拍的一张,不算是特别,但个人觉得可以简易的带出莲花出淤泥而不染的姿态,清纯、朴素...

有时候,幻想自己也可以像莲花一样,即使生长在一个恶劣的环境,也可以显得那么清纯、高贵以及受人尊敬。看来,自己的历练还不够,要好好磨练自己了。

Thursday, May 06, 2010

摄影作品:不知名的魅力黄色蘑菇 (前篇)

之前因为醒得不够早,错过了这可爱蘑菇‘含苞待放’的形态;这次,很意外的在我下班时间,可以目睹这生态自然魅力的一面。忍不住,上楼拿了相机,拍了几张给大家看了....

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超喜欢它‘含苞待放’的样子...

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比起‘绽放’的形态,这个样子不仅含蓄,还给人们一个:“即使生命短暂,也要不枉此生”的启示~

Tuesday, May 04, 2010

"Please call my mobile number"

Monday, most of the people will feel 'blue', especially siting in office, and have to read through hundred of emails which accumulated during weekend.

For me, I wouldn't feel so 'blue', because I do feel 'light-blue' everyday. However, yesterday were different! While I nearly stifle by answering call from Taiwan, there was one Singapore customer that actually "cheer" me up.

"Hai-ed, this is Ar-lu from xxx Corp. Can i give you my tag number?", said an Indian guy.

"Of course sir!May I have the Service Tag number?"

I need to take 3mins to obtain the service tag from this customer, due to he is in data center and his heavy accent. After verify the service tag number, I noticed that he is new caller, no contact details from our database; and yet I've no chance to get his contact number, due to his words come out like a machine gun from his mouth.

Then, I took another 20mins just to understand the issue; Finally, I use 15mins to explain the service arrangement to him.

At last, he said this to me:
"..ok sir, please have your onsite engineer to call my mobile phone.." , then he hang up the phone.

I were wondering what number should I reach him since he just hang up the phone like this. Surprisingly, I laughed. Immediately I share this in my Facebook and get few reply from my friends.

Roughly 15mins later, he call back, and kind of blame me as below:
"..oh, I thought you should have my mobile number since i'm your customer..."

I laughed after I end this call, and think how funny this customer it is. Superstar like Jackie Chan's contact details wouldn't know by any of us, what say him?

Sunday, May 02, 2010

摄影作品:不知名的魅力黄色蘑菇

在柳树下的泥土,不知怎么样,带来了一朵朵黄色的蘑菇。蘑菇盛开的时间都是早上6am - 6:30am,所以要很早起身,准备摄影器具如闪光灯,不然的话,拍到的只是‘黑色’蘑菇了...

通常到了9点许,这些蘑菇就会谢了...虽然生命短暂,但是盛开的时候,却比什么都漂亮!

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好像雨伞在地上直立,好可爱!~